What if you’re shy or introverted and want to date outgoing volleyball players?

This time I’m honoured to host Steve Zawila – who opens up about how introverts can attract, date, and enjoy a relationship with even extroverted athletic women like his fiance (she was captain of the volleyball team in high-school, he says) without having to fake being extroverted themselves. He is the founder of www.quietlyromantic.com – where he helps men find love without having to change who they are. On top of that, he’s been featured in The Huffington Post, Yahoo, The Good Men Project, and Introvert, Dear.

Like Steve says “If you are true to your own personality, if you’re being authentic, some women are going to like that!” 1:06:00 That’s entirely true! Now the question is, how do you communicate that in an effective way? 1:24:30

Steve shared some things, like:

• What an “introvert” is: 1:30
• How to make an introvert x extrovert relationship work: 9:20
• How not being that “healthy in the head” attracts the same: 17:10
• How to not let rejections grate on you: 29:57
• How to come from a secure place and have a relationship that is very rewarding: 1:31:05

 

He also answered some of my questions, like: 

• Are the women introverts attract and are attracted to different? 1:50
• Is there “one who got away” or a woman you dated you learned alot from? 10:30
• What is different about dating quality women? 54:35
• What do men struggle with most when it comes to dating quality women? 1:33:35
• Is there anything introverts have to do differently from extroverts? 1:35:40

 And more.

Steve shared some things, like:

• What an “introvert” is: 1:30
• How to make an introvert x extrovert relationship work: 9:20
• How not being that “healthy in the head” attracts the same: 17:10
• How to not let rejections grate on you: 29:57
• How to come from a secure place and have a relationship that is very rewarding: 1:31:05

 

He also answered some of my questions, like: 

• Are the women introverts attract and are attracted to different? 1:50
• Is there “one who got away” or a woman you dated you learned alot from? 10:30
• What is different about dating quality women? 54:35
• What do men struggle with most when it comes to dating quality women? 1:33:35
• Is there anything introverts have to do differently from extroverts? 1:35:40

 And more.